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Article in NZ Bride
& Groom magazine about a wedding held at Fairfield House
in 2003..
"Emily and Emmanuel Rejouis
were selected as our Bride and Groom of the Year. Their photos and
story show just how much their wedding day reflected their individual
personalities and style, and what a happy occasion it obviously was.
Emily tells their story.
Family and friends know us as the adventurous and inseperable "Em
and 'Em, short for Emily and Emmanuel. I'm from Nelson and Emmanuel
is Haitian by birth. After graduating from university, we'd noth been
working independantly as volunteers with the United Nations Volunteer
Programme, Emmanuel in Rwanda and me in Cambodia. By coincidencewe
were both called by the UNV headquarters to go to Nigeria for four
months. The day after I arrived was New Year's Eve. That night we
fell in love on the dance floor and we have never been apart since.
In planning our wedding, it was important to recognise our mixed cultures
and heritage. First, Emmanuel's dad gave a religious blessing on hte
beach in Haiti, and then came 'Em and 'Em's NZ Wedding'. We chose
to get married in the gardens of Fairfield House in Nelson, for its
natural beauty and spiritual ambience. Together with our friends we
rented the entire villa for three days and about half our 80 guests
camped out with us for the wedding weekend. The mix of nationalities
was like a mini United nations!
We put a lot of creative effort into the planning, consuming several
issues of NZ Bride & Groom in the process! Emmanuel with his sense
of style, knew he wanted to wear a cream Khan-style suit, and asked
our local tailer to make it for him. I designed my gown with the help
of a dress designer Loiuse Anderson and spent several hours making
jewellery to match. Emmanuel designed our identical wedding rings
in white gold and pounamu. Every detail was imbued with personal and
cultural symbolism. We also handmade our wedding invitations and created
CDs of our favourite music for the guests.
Our wedding day dawned sparkling and sunny. As my former high-school
teacher played the keyboard in the garden, our mums began the wedding
ceremony walking together down the dais- lawn aisle to light unity
candles. Then, from within the native bush, came the deep, rhythmic
sound of African drums. Emmanuel and his dad emerged side by side
from the trees.
Next, in a rich burst of colour, seven of my girlfriends appeared
from the greenery. Individually dressed to their own taste like butterflies
in flame-red and fushia-pink, they floated in caryying Asian parasols
and fans. Lastly my dad, sister (as chief bridesmaid), neice (as flowergirl)
and I, entered to the very beautiful and majestic 'Nella Fantasia'.
Emmanuel and I had written the ceremony together with the guidance
of our marriage celebrant. It was a reflection of our families and
a new life together.
Sprinkled with rose-petal confetti and soap bubbles, an hour later
we were drinking Haitian Rhum cocktails. Music is one of our shared
passions, so we asked several of our musically talented friends to
play and sing for us as a prelude to dinner.
Inspired by our adventures, we named the reception tables after the
countries we had worked in over the last six years for the United
Nations. Naturally we were seated at Nigeria. Emmanuel and I both
took a turn to speak. At the enmd of my speech I p[layed the guitar
and sang a song that I'd composed for Emmanuel. The dancing and music
carried on until the early hours with a lvie band and DJ. The day
could not have been more perfect.
We have now been married for just over a year and are thankful every
day for the chance circumstances in which we met. Despite our cultural
and geographic extremes, we have so much in common and share a profound
love and respect for each other." |
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